jbd2: Add sanity check for attempts to start handle during umount

jbd2: Add sanity check for attempts to start handle during umount

An attempt to modify the file system during the call to
jbd2_destroy_journal() can lead to a system lockup.  So add some
checking to make it much more obvious when this happens to and to
determine where the offending code is located.

Signed-off-by: "Theodore Ts'o" <tytso@mit.edu>