build: fix cleaning configured stamp file
We have packages with their own parts appended to standard STAMP_CONFIGURED
(mostly with an underscore character). This will render the current
STAMP_CONFIGURED_WILD setting invalid and the build system may miss a rebuild
on config change
1. Build with config A
2. Build with config B, yet .configured_A_xx did not get cleaned
3. Return to config A, but rebuild will not happen because stamp file
of config A still exists
Signed-off-by: Yousong Zhou <yszhou4tech@gmail.com>