blk-mq: always free hctx after request queue is freed

blk-mq: always free hctx after request queue is freed

In normal queue cleanup path, hctx is released after request queue
is freed, see blk_mq_release().

However, in __blk_mq_update_nr_hw_queues(), hctx may be freed because
of hw queues shrinking. This way is easy to cause use-after-free,
because: one implicit rule is that it is safe to call almost all block
layer APIs if the request queue is alive; and one hctx may be retrieved
by one API, then the hctx can be freed by blk_mq_update_nr_hw_queues();
finally use-after-free is triggered.

Fixes this issue by always freeing hctx after releasing request queue.
If some hctxs are removed in blk_mq_update_nr_hw_queues(), introduce
a per-queue list to hold them, then try to resuse these hctxs if numa
node is matched.

Cc: Dongli Zhang <dongli.zhang@oracle.com>
Cc: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Cc: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@wdc.com>
Cc: linux-scsi@vger.kernel.org,
Cc: Martin K . Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>,
Cc: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>,
Cc: James E . J . Bottomley <jejb@linux.vnet.ibm.com>,
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Tested-by: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>